“Can you believe that he texted me this?!?”
What did he text?
“When can I see the kids?”
“He’s DEMANDING TO TAKE THE CHILDREN!”
Sometimes a text is just a text. The tip of the day is to not read tone into to text messages. On numerous occasions I have had clients read exchanges between themselves and their ex. They read their own words in an angelic voice, but their ex’s in a tone that is a maniacal monster. They literally change their tone of voice when reading the ex’s messages. It’s fascinating to watch. However, it can be counter productive.
Text messages are not proper English. Words are abbreviated. Punctuation is often non-existent. This blog struggles with correct grammar. Text messages don’t even try to be grammatically correct.
Applying tone allows for the potential of miscommunication, may result in an unreasonable response and can get you all riled up unnecessarily. Even if there is tone what difference does it make? Respond thinking that a judge may see this one day.
Matthew Thompson is a Mississippi Divorce Attorney and tries daily to not read tone into text messages.
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