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Drugs, Sex & Rock-n-Roll…No, Just DRUGS.

Drugs, it seems, are back on the scene in a big way.  Habitual Drug use is a ground for divorce.  Drug use can be a bar to custody.  Drug abuse is a Crime and can lead to other troubles.

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It’s more and more common for parties in family law cases to be drug tested.  Urine, hair follicles, blood and even finger nails can be tested for drug use.  Depending on the test, results can show drugs or alcohol in your system from 2 days ago up to 90 days ago.  And testing “Hot” is not a good thing.

In your Family Law case the Court will put a lot of weight in a Failed Drug test when determining custody, visitation and credibility.  While a Failed Drug test does not guaranty you will lose custody, it certainly does not help.  It also can matter what type of drugs, how recent and quantities that the test results show.

Use, whether it is “recreational,” “just once” or “I never inhaled” can and will be used against you.  Drug use can also be an element of child neglect/abuse.

Once, I was discussing visitation rights with a non-custodial parent.  I made the comment, “Well, as long as you did not have a meth lab in the garage you have nothing to worry about.”  The response, “What if I did?”  “That’s going to be a problem…

Now, all is not lost if you have used drugs or are using drugs, IF you STOP!  Court’s like to see people “get their act together” “turn their life around” and “be productive members of society.”  You can see your kids and you may even get or regain custody if you are doing all the right things.

Matthew Thompson is an Adjunct Professor teaching Domestic Relations and a Divorce Attorney.  In the words of Nancy Reagan, “JUST SAY NO!”

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War Stories; A “Bump” in the Road

Client sabotages own case.  Story at eleven.

FACTS:  A mother lost custody, temporarily, due to being arrested for driving on a suspended license.  The father was given the child and while mom was in jail he filed a fault based divorce, sought custody and had her served.  Mom was finally released and began the process of regaining custody.  Mom filed an Answer and a claim for custody herself.

At a temporary hearing, which is a legal band-aid to address custody and finances, mom presented her case.  Upon being cross-examined there were numerous questions about alleged drug use.  Well, fortunately, mom had been thoroughly interviewed and prepared by her lawyer.  Her ONLY dirt was the suspended license.

Mom denied the drug allegations as laughable. Some of mom’s financial records were introduced that showed her in some shady parts of town at unseemly hours. This was shown through ATM transactions. However, mom was a waitress at night and just blew off some steam with some co-workers and got beer money. No harm, no foul.  Then mom was asked about a pipe that was “found” in her belongings.  “Not mine,” she quipped.

The Court was ready to rule. The Judge indicated that it seemed dad may have taken advantage of mom’s unfortunate circumstances. It came out that he may have tipped off law enforcement that she was driving on a suspended license. That Jerk!  But, “out of an abundance of caution” the Court decided to Order hair follicle drug tests. In fact, the Judge ordered that they were to report to get tested that day, before 5:00 p.m., to have the results furnished to the Court directly from the testing facility and then, assuming all clear, he would determine the custody and visitation for each.

On the way out of the Courtroom mom asked…

Can I delay the test?”    “What?!!!”    “I may have had a “‘bump...(of coke).'”

Nope. Not taking the test was not an option. Only the worst could be assumed from that. Mom took the test and failed, miserably.  A No Contact Order was entered. Dad passed. Mom lied.

Final Result:  A few weeks later the parties reconciled! Case dismissed.

Matthew Thompson is a Child Custody Attorney in Mississippi and while there may be bumps in the road it does not mean you should cause the bumps.

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