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When to Call the Police!

Family law cases can be very difficult, some even dangerous.  There is a saying that Criminal Law cases, after the arrest, involve bad people who are acting their best, and Family Law cases involve good people who are acting their worst.  So when does acting their worst warrant calling the Police/911?

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  • Any Physical Abuse.  This is a crime. Get yourself and the kids, get out of there and call 911.  You will not lose the house just because you “left.” It’s not kidnapping to take the kids to safety. Do NOT tolerate Domestic Violence!
  • Believed Threats.  If your life is threatened, or serious bodily harm is threatened and you believe it, leave and call the police.  Now, sometimes people say stupid things and if he says something, but you don’t believe it or it’s sarcastic or a failed attempt at humor don’t try to make it more than it is.
  • Trespassing and Refusal to Leave.  If you have an Order that gives you exclusive use of the house and he comes over and refuses to leave the police will make him or he can be arrested for trespass.  If it is someone else’s property and she is asked to leave, whether there is an Order or not, and refuses that is trespass.  Make sure you have a copy of the Order if you intend to seek that it be enforced.
  • Criminal Activity.  Drunk driving, illegal drug use, activity that is dangerous to others.
  • Serious Injury/Emergencies.  In the event of serious injury, whether intentional, accident or otherwise,do NOT hesitate because of “how it would look.” Call 911.

Law enforcement, generally, does not like getting involved in civil, domestic situations.  They much prefer the lawyers and judges to sort these things out. And, when there is no Order, or no clear violation, they have to tread very carefully when they do get involved.  Because of this, they look to who is the instigator, who is causing the trouble, and try to get that person to leave, to calm down, to end the dispute.  It is also somewhat common for law enforcement to threaten the arrest of both parties when it’s a domestic call with no clear instigator.

One thing to be careful of is false calling, this can backfire.  Calling when there is not a legitimate reason to does not “build” a strong case for divorce.  However, if there is any abuse, or a genuine threat, ALWAYS err on the side of caution and call the Police/911.  In a true emergency do NOT call your lawyer first, call 911.

Matthew Thompson is a family law attorney in Mississippi and if you find yourself in an Emergency call 911.

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Domestic Relations vs. Domestic Incarcerations; Jail for bad behavior.

In Family Law, dealing with divorce and child custody issues are enough to keep any attorney busy.  With ever-changing emotions, gray areas of the law relating to dividing assets and assessing how a particular judge may determine the best interests of a child, attorneys and clients don’t need more on their plate to deal with.  But, there is more…Jail!

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I have previously blogged on going to Jail for having sex and not paying child support, but there is another reason folks go to jail in their family law case, letting their emotions get the best of them.

It is quite common for Family law matters to “spill over” into Justice Court or Municipal Courts.  Most commonly are assault, trespass and domestic violence violations.  I have included portions of the statute for you to review, below and italicized common issues.

The severity of these charges depends in large part on the severity of the circumstances, the severity of injuries, if any, and whether there is a history of violations or abuse.  Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for one spouse to attempt to use these criminal allegations to “one-up” the other and attempt to use the criminal charges as leverage in divorce negotiations.

Lawyers would be wise to warn their clients about the possibility of a client losing their cool, even once, leading to criminal charges and that, perhaps, their former significant other may “create” circumstances in the hopes of using those against them in a later or pending divorce action.

§ 97-3-7. Simple assault

(1) (a) A person is guilty of simple assault if he (i) attempts to cause or purposely…causes bodily injury to another; (ii) negligently causes bodily injury with a deadly weapon… or (iii) attempts by physical menace to put another in fear of imminent serious bodily harm; shall be punished by a fine of not more than Five Hundred Dollars ($ 500.00) or by imprisonment for not more than six (6) months, or both.

§ 97-17-85. Trespass; going upon inclosed land of another 

If any person shall go upon the enclosed land of another without his consent, after having been notified by such person …not to do so …or shall remain on such land after a request by such person; shall, upon conviction, be fined not more than Fifty Dollars ($ 50.00).

§ 97-3-7. Simple domestic violence; Aggravated domestic violence 

(3) A person is guilty of simple domestic violence who commits simple assault as described in subsection (1) of this section (see simple assault)  against a current or former spouse … upon conviction, the defendant shall be punished as provided under subsection (1) …a third conviction of simple domestic violence…within five (5) years, the defendant shall be guilty of a felony and sentenced to a term of imprisonment not less than five (5) nor more than ten (10) years.

§ 97-3-7.  Aggravated domestic violence 
(4) A person is guilty of aggravated domestic violence who commits aggravated assault as described in subsection (2) of this section against, or who strangles, or attempts to strangle, a current or former spouse … Upon conviction, the defendant shall be punished by imprisonment in the custody of the Department of Corrections for not less than two (2) years nor more than twenty (20) years… a third conviction of aggravated domestic violence…within five (5) years, the defendant shall be guilty of a felony and sentenced to a term of imprisonment of not less than ten (10) nor more than twenty (20) years.

(2) (a) A person is guilty of aggravated assault if he (i) attempts to cause serious bodily injury to another, or causes such injury purposely, knowingly or recklessly under circumstances manifesting extreme indifference to the value of human life; (ii) attempts to cause or purposely or knowingly causes bodily injury to another with a deadly weapon or other means likely to produce death or serious bodily harm; or (iii) causes any injury to a child who is in the process of boarding or exiting a school bus in the course of a violation of Section 63-3-615; and, upon conviction, he shall be punished by imprisonment in the county jail for not more than one (1) year or in the Penitentiary for not more than twenty (20) years.

Matthew Thompson is a family law attorney that has only been to jail to help his clients get out.  He intends to keep it that way and hopes (advises) that you do too!

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You may also contact Matthew with your family law case, question or concern at (601) 850-8000 or Matthew@wmtlawfirm.com.

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