Category Archives: Opinion

Know the Lay Out of the Court

Familiarity breeds…Comfort, at least in Court.

One thing a potential litigant should do, as best they can, is Know the Layout of the Court; where to sit, where the Judge sits, where the attorneys will be, where to look when testifying, etc.

A great thing to do prior to any Child Testimony, be it in the Courtroom or Chambers, is let that child know all of the above and how the Judge will treat them respectfully and require the attorneys to do the same.

I had a case where one parent decided to call the child to testify to help “prove the case.” It was not something the child wanted or the other parent wanted, nor something the “proof” required. It was a tactic, I believe, to scare the other parent. However, knowing the Court and how this particular Judge handled child testimony made all the difference. When it came time for the child to testify, it went as smoothly as possible and the Judge determined that the child was safe, well-adjusted, smart and that no modification was warranted.

The child testifying, in fact, backfired on the parent calling the child. Afterwards, my client shared with me that the prep work we did and the schematic that was sketched out showing the Courtroom and Judge’s Chambers had a calming effect and made a difference.

Matthew Thompson is a Child Custody Lawyer in Mississippi and believes that preparation is critical for success.

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Meet the Candidate; Chancery Edition- JAMES C. WALKER FOR CHANCERY COURT JUDGE

The 11th Chancery District, serving Madison, Leake, Holmes and Yazoo Counties, is gaining a third Judge position. Come meet one of the candidates at Georgia Blue, Madison, MS location, on Tuesday, June 9, 2015, at 5:30 p.m.

James C. Walker

The front-runner for this seat is James Walker. Walker has the backing of the majority of Family Law and Chancery practitioners in the vast majority of the district. Walker is the current Family Master for the District; hearing Emergency Petitions,Temporary Hearings and the types of matters the current Chancellors hear. Walker is the former staff attorney for Judge Cynthia Brewer, former staff attorney for DHS and has his own private Chancery practice law firm.

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*Thompson Law Firm, pllc, is a Host for the James C. Walker for Chancery Court Judge campaign.

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Take Your Kids to the Theatre

The movies are fine, but I’m talking about live action theatre. 

  
There’s something really amazing and endearing about witnessing a live performance. Watching the story come to life in three dimensions is an experience that even the highest definition cannot capture. 

The Lion King, Peter Pan, The Little Mermaid or Mary Poppins, it does not matter. Broadway or a high school production, all offer something to enjoy. 

You don’t have to be highfalutin or in a tux and tales to enjoy. And in my experience your kids rise to the occasion and really enjoy it!

  
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Honoring Memorial Day

Memorial Day is a day to remember and honor those who have died in service to this Country.   

On Memorial Day, the flag of the United States is raised briskly to the top of the staff and then solemnly lowered to the half-staff position, where it remains only until noon. It is then raised to full-staff for the remainder of the day.

The half-staff position remembers the more than one million men and women who gave their lives in service of their country. At noon, their memory is raised by the living, who resolve not to let their sacrifice be in vain, but to rise up in their stead and continue the fight for liberty and justice for all.

 

Last year we spent the day at Arlington National Cemetary.  It was a remarkable experience. The day is not about BBQ and getting off work. Happy Memorial Day? No. Honoring those who sacrificed ALL on Memorial Day?  Yes. 

Matthew Thompson

Meet the Candidate; Madison County Justice Court Judge Election

Election season is in full swing. Here’s your chance to meet the candidate and get involved.

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Kelly Williams, a candidate for Madison County Justice Court Judge, is having a meet and greet on Tuesday night at the Lake Caroline Martinique Clubhouse. It’s a causal, come-and-go event for residents, friends and voters from Madison County to meet Attorney Kelly Williams and to find out what a Justice Court Judge does.

The Martinique Clubhouse is in the North-West corner of Lake Caroline properties, just off Hwy 22 and the western most entrance to Caroline next to McMillon Road. 5:30-8:30 pm.

Matthew Thompson is a Mississippi Family Law Attorney and is on the Host Committee for Candidate for Justice Court Judge, Kelly Williams.

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How NOT to Communicate; 10 Methods or Means of Communication that are more Trouble than they are Worth.

A big part of the any relationship is communication.

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A big part of the trouble in many relationships is  difficulty with or lack of communication. So, I have made a list of ways to NOT communicate.

1. Threats. Don’t make them.

2. Unreasonable Demands. They are unreasonable.

3. Information Dump on a Whim.  The time must be appropriate for the discussions necessary.

4. Sensitive Information in a Non-protected Environment. Have private talks in private. Not in front of the children, friends, family and others.

5. Blaming the Other Incessantly. Accepting responsibility is one thing, being the reason that every bad thing that ever happened is not likely.

6. Screaming. Not necessary. He who is the loudest does not win.

7. Cursing. Not necessary.

8. Being Unprepared. If you or the other person are not in a position to discuss intelligently it is likely much will not be accomplished.

9. Win at All Costs. I’m always right. Even when I am wrong, I am right…right?

10. Lying. What good does it do to “win” if it’s a lie?

Matthew Thompson is a family law attorney and cautions persons to be careful how they communicate with others.

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Want a Better Life? Don’t Do This! One Divorce Attorney’s Take

I give GREAT advice everyday. At least most, I think, is good to great advice, but seldom is it truly something you did not already know…

Hearing the obvious however, sometimes helps it “click.”

I have recently spent some time speaking with former clients, now close friends, about work, life, family and why things are not magically better now that they are on the other side of divorce.

Primarily the reason is perception versus reality.  The idea that if I can just get through this period in my life all will be better does not hold true.  As soon as you make it through that time, something else comes up in life that kicks you in the teeth, figuratively speaking of course. The “just power through it” mentality usually results in a let down when that next issue inevitably crops up.

So, back to what is that I am not to do for a better life? Do NOT invite DRAMA into your life. You have  enough to deal with.  Do not allow persons who steal your spirit and crush your soul to be in your life, if you can help it.

Matthew Thompson is a family law attorney and warns clients about who and what they allow in their lives.

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Nuclear Scandal or Atomic Ado About Nothing? How Controversy “Follows” the Clintons like Thunder follows Lightening.

For good or for bad, the Clinton family is the face of American Politics.

http://legalinsurrection.com/2015/04/clinton-foundation-becoming-radioactive/

The “scandal du jour” is that “a Canadian company known as Uranium One wanted America to defend its Uranium interests from a Russian firm, Rosatom;  then later decided to simply let Rosatom acquire it. To do so,  Uranium One needed State Department approval. (The approval was necessary because Uranium One controlled American uranium mines and exploration fields, a strategic asset. And approval was gained.)” 

“As the Russians assumed control of Uranium One in separate transactions from 2009 to 2013, Canadian records show a flow of cash to the Clinton Foundation.

Uranium One’s chairman made four donations totaling $2.35 million. Other persons with ties to the company made donations as well. The donations were not properly disclosed.

Complicating matters, Uranium One had acquired its interests after its major shareholder, Frank Giustra, travelled with Bill Clinton to Kazakhstan in 2005 and met with the country’s leader. Giustra sold his interest in the company in 2007 and was not involved in the later dealings. But Giustra has put tens of millions of dollars into the foundation’s work; the Clinton Giustra Enterprise Partnership, which bears his name, is a formal component of the Bill, Hillary, and Chelsea Clinton Foundation. Id. 

The Uranium One story is troubling, and potentially damaging, because of the personal ties, the foreign interests, the opacity, and connecting the dots, which involves Putin allies publicly gloating over Russia’s increased dominance of the world’s uranium supplies. 

Putting aside who got rich, did this series of uranium deals damage or compromise national security?   “the sale gave the Russians control of one-fifth of all uranium production capacity in the United States.” It makes Russia stronger. 

Ok, Russia has nuclear interests, So what?  Russia is also allied with Iran.  From 2005 to current, Russia has assisted Iran with developing their Nuclear Technology.  The director of the Russian state nuclear power company recently signed an agreement for the additional reactors with his Iranian counterpart, at Rosatom.

Iran has been under sanctions for years due to their Uranium Enrichment program.

The United States, Israel, Saudi Arabia and other nations want the enrichment program to be shut down because the same industrial process, using centrifuges, can be used to produce materials for nuclear weapons. 

The links above go to the New York Times and New Yorker articles with additional info.

Confused yet? Headache? It’s a big deal because who has radioactive materials matters and millions of dollars exchanging hands going to persons responsible for who ends up with radioactive materials matters and the “errors” in reporting said millions of dollars matters, and Iran’s access to radioactive materials matters and what Russia does matters.

Matthew Thompson is an Attorney in Mississippi and wondered why this story was buried about 3 pages below Jeb Bush’s Paleo diet and just wanted to see if anyone out there cares… 

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