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Matthew operates the Thompson Law Firm, pllc, a Mississippi based Family Law firm emphasizing; Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Modification, Contempt and Appeals, handling family law cases throughout Mississippi. (601) 850-8000 Matthew@bowtielawyer.ms www.BowTieLawyer.ms

What is CHILD ABUSE? CHILD NEGELCT?

Abused child” means a child whose parent, …caused or allowed … sexual abuse, sexual exploitation, commercial sexual exploitation, emotional abuse, mental injury, non-accidental physical injury or other maltreatment to occur.

Legal Definitions – Miss. Code Ann. Sec. 43-21-105:

Neglected child” means a child:
(i) Whose parent… or any person responsible for his care…neglects or refuses, when able to provide necessary care or support, including education (as required by law), medical, surgical, or other care necessary for well-being.

  • However, a parent who withholds medical treatment from any child who in good faith is under treatment by spiritual means alone through prayer in accordance with the tenets and practices of a recognized church or religious denomination by a duly accredited practitioner thereof shall not, for that reason alone, be considered to be neglectful

  • (ii) Who is otherwise without proper care, custody, supervision or support; or

  • (iii) Who, for any reason, lacks the special care made necessary for him by reason of his mental condition, whether the mental condition is having mental illness or having an intellectual disability; or

  • (iv) Who, for any reason, lacks the care necessary for his health, morals or well-being.
    • The “when able” provision limits the application of neglect when the parent does not have the ability to provide necessities, think sever poverty issues. In that instance it is not willful neglect.
       
  • Abused child” means a child whose parent…has caused or allowed sexual abuse, sexual exploitation, commercial sexual exploitation, emotional abuse, mental injury, non-accidental physical injury or other maltreatment.
  • However, physical discipline, including spanking, performed on a child by a parent, guardian or custodian in a reasonable manner shall not be deemed abuse under this section.
  • “Abused child” also means a child who is or has been trafficked within the meaning of the Mississippi Human Trafficking Act.
     
  • Sexual abuse” means obscene or pornographic photographing, filming or depiction of children for commercial purposes, or the rape, molestation, incest, prostitution or other such forms of sexual exploitation of children.
     
  • Any person responsible for care or support” means the person who is providing for the child at a given time. This term includes stepparents, foster parents, relatives, non-licensed babysitters or other similar persons responsible for a child and staff of residential care facilities and group homes.
     
  • Commercial sexual exploitation” means any sexual act or crime of a sexual nature, which is committed against a child for financial or economic gain, to obtain a thing of value for quid pro quo exchange of property or for any other purpose.
  • Abuse and neglect are preventable and/or treatable circumstances if We all Look out for one another. If you see something, say something!

Matthew Thompson and Chad King are child welfare attorneys in the State of Mississippi. They have represented natural parents, foster parents, grandparents, other relatives, fictive kin, children and the Agency (CPS) throughout their decades of practice. (NOT all at the same time).

Presidential Family Law & Fun Facts on President’s Day!

It’s President’s Day –

Presidents’ Day, officially Washington’s Birthday at the federal governmental level, is a holiday in the United States celebrated on the third Monday of February. It is often celebrated to honor all those who served as presidents of the United States and, since 1879, has been the federal holiday honoring Founding Father George Washington, the first U.S. president, from 1789 to 1797. – Wikipedia.

Some Fun Presidential family law facts, include:

America has only had two divorced presidents, while two widower presidents moved on to second wives while in office. And one president never got married at all.

Ronald Reagan and Donald Trump were the two presidents who divorced prior to taking office.

John Tyler and Woodrow Wilson both lost their wives during their presidency, and remarried during their term, respectively.

John Tyler had 15 children, the most of any other US president. He had eight children with his first wife, Letitia Christian Tyler, and seven with his second wife, Julia Gardiner Tyler. 

James Buchanan was unmarried at the time he was in office.

Matthew Thompson is a family law attorney in Mississippi, wishing you a Happy President’s Day!

Valentine’s Day Special!

Happy Valentine’s Day from your favorite Divorce Attorney!!

Don’t do Shady Stuff…!

Great advice from a Lawyer!

In any given situation you will have the opportunity to do what is right…or not.

Sometimes people will play on your sympathies, describe suffering awful transgressions, be subject to true unfairness and will attempt to get you to help them.

Don’t bend the rules.

Don’t bend the rules, even for the right reasons.

Matthew Thompson is a family law attorney in Mississippi and encourages parties, lawyers and the judges to not do shady stuff.

“Paramount” Physical Custody – we know what it means, but does it “Exist” ??

I wrote about the weird Custody Bill from this session and it is still alive.

The irony is it’s only triggered when a court awards “paramount” custody to one parent over the other. “Paramount” custody does not legally exist, not in Mississippi Statutory Code.

Paramount is not a commonly used term in custody agreements and does not appear often in reported or appealed cases.

I know a judge who will ignore this law completely as he does not award “paramount” physical custody.

I get the intent of the law, but execution will be misapplied, not applied or create unintended consequences…as words matter in the law.

You can read about the correct words regarding custody here.

Matthew Thompson is a child custody attorney in Mississippi.

Married for Another Year…Common sense Changes to Divorce Law DIE, again…

Senate Bill 2018 and House Bill 496 died a quick, unceremonious death in committee this year.

Both sought to allow fault grounds to be amended or added to existing law. One change was to allow for a divorce if the parties had been separated for over a year. The other, if a party could prove the marriage was irretrievably broken. Not outrageous changes…

Regardless, there will be no changes in 2025 to fault grounds in Mississippi.

Matthew Thompson is a Mississippi Divorce attorney and has supported common sense changes to divorce law for 20 years…it hasn’t happened yet.

True Joint Custody Bill Proposed…UPDATE, it’s DEAD

Mississippi Courts have not historically favored Joint Custody. A new Bill would require a presumption of Joint Custody is best for a child, that would have to be overcome if a parent doesn’t agree…

Senate Bill 2484 seeks to amend the current custody statute 93-5-24, as follows: “

(2) * * * (a) (i) There shall be a rebuttable presumption that joint custody and equally shared parenting time is in the best interest of the child. If the court does not grant joint custody and/or equally shared parenting time, the court shall construct a parenting time schedule which maximizes the time each parent has with the child and ensures the best interest of the child is met.
(ii) The presumption created in subparagraph (i) of this paragraph shall be rebuttable by a preponderance of the evidence. A court that does not award joint custody with equally shared parenting time shall document the reasons for deviating from the presumption.
(b) Upon petition of both parents, the court may grant
legal and/or physical custody to one (1) parent.”

This is an interesting Bill and in theory how Custody determinations should begin anyway. However, it goes further than current law in creating a rebuttable presumption and then requiring documenting the reasons for deviating from the presumption if the court does not grant joint physical custody and/or equally shared parenting time.

Read more about the current law and Physical Custody here.

Read more about Legal Custody here.

Matthew Thompson is a child custody lawyer and believes mom and dad coparenting and working together is what’s best for the child. A set schedule based on the child, with flexibility when warranted is what is best…

How NOT to do supervised visitation.

Supervised visitation is Ordered in rare circumstances.

It is typically when the parent has had significant issues with illegal substances, run-ins with law enforcement, severe defiance of prior Orders, mental health issues or present as a danger to the child. (Or a combo of the above)

These parents, of course, have the right to see their child, but the Court’s obligation is to make sure that the child is safe, at all times.

Below is what NOT to do…

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7827765/California-surgeon-arrested-trying-kidnap-son-12.html