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Divorce, General Legal

Make Good Choices.

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Life is about the choices we make.

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You have the option today of choosing to do things that will make your life, family and case better, or worse. Choose those things that make it better.

Sometimes we get in the habit of making bad decisions. It’s easy, maybe even fun, but it is not the right choice. The great thing about family law is that if you do not know what the “right” legal answer is, so long as you do what is right you will be ok.

Stop making bad decisions. Stop the bad habits. Make good choices.

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(601) 850-8000  or Matthew@bowtielawyer.ms

 

Child Custody, Divorce, General Legal, Modifications, Opinion, Visitation

Don’t Ask This Question.

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There is a lawyer cliché to never ask a question that you do not know the answer to.

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Asking that question may get you a self-serving answer that you did not anticipate.It may open Pandora’s box of bad evidence and a tidal wave of otherwise inadmissible evidence. All because you asked a question you should not have asked.

In a custody case, the opposing counsel called the child to testify. This was a dispute between mom and dad and the other attorney wanted the child to testify about what she wanted, specifically where and with whom she wanted to live. However, opposing counsel did NOT know what the child was going to say, but instead assumed it would be favorable to his client. After the routine introductory questions, the child was specifically asked,”If you had a magic wand and you could wave it and live wherever you wanted, where would that be?” After a few seconds of silence the child responded, “ A castle!” Fatal to the case? No. But not the answer the lawyer was looking for and it further helped prove positions that we had taken throughout the case regarding the child’s emotional maturity, an issue we believed worked in our favor.

Of course, sometimes it’s a critical issue and you have to ask the question. Tread carefully.

Another question not ask; When are you due?

Matthew Thompon is a Child Custody attoreny in Mississippi and tries not to ask questions that he does not know the answer to.

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Child Custody, General Legal

Noncustodial Parents Have Rights

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Unless your rights have been terminated by a Judicial proceeding, either via Termination and/or Adoption, you have rights.

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MCA § 93­-5-26 (click) provides that you, as a parent, have rights of access to records and information pertaining to your minor child(ren), including but not limited to medical, dental and school records and these shall NOT be denied to a parent because you are not the custodial parent.

Schools, doctors and dentists offices should take note of the above. Also, as a parent, you should be informed and have a copy of this statute  with you when seeking this information if the other parent is not forthcoming.

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(601) 850-8000  or Matthew@bowtielawyer.ms

Child Custody, Divorce, General Legal

Don’t Play Games 

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It’s all fun and games until somebody gets hurt. 

            I’m not talking about playing with your children.  Too often I see adults playing games with the other parent’s time. It’s not a game. It’s not really even the other parent’s time. It’s the children’s. 

It is also painful when the lawyer is playing games too. Advocating for your client is not making it as costly and long as possible. It’s not arguing over everything. It’s not agreeing to one thing and then doing another. 

If this post sounds like you, it’s not too late to change. Be a decent parent. Be a decent lawyer. Be a decent human being. And if you are still going to play games, join a soccer team. 

Matthew Thompson is a Family Lawyer and is mildly irritated by people sometimes. 

http://www.BowTieLawyer.ms

(601)850-8000

Child Custody, Divorce, General Legal, humor, Opinion

Beware of the Lemon Lawyer.

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You’ve heard of the Lincoln Lawyer, but what about the Lemon Lawyer…

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Signs of the Lemon Lawyer:

  • When you Call the Office and you Never get a Live Person. Voicemail has a purpose, but every time? Leave a message after the beep.
  • Bait and Switch.  That’ll be $19.95. Once hired, that was just the retainer. it will be $19,995.00.
  • It’s Their First Case Doing that Type of Law. We all had to start somewhere, but sometimes the rookie is dangerous.
  • Alternative Fee Arrangements.  Sure. We all like the Barter system, but taking your case for a bushel of beans and your grandpaw’s shotgun… you may get a bushel of something. Also, if there is a “couch fee” option, RUN!
  • Multiple Office Moves. Moving on up is one thing. Constantly moving, multiple firm changes and temporary office space at the Kangaroo Mart are red flags.
  • When you tell other people who represents you they say, “Ohhhh…“

Matthew Thompson is a Divorce Litigation Attorney in Mississippi and warns you to avoid the lemon.

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Child Custody, Divorce, General Legal, Modifications, Visitation

Hearsay, Hearsay, Read All About It.

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Hearsay is any out of Court statement that is used to prove the truth of the matter asserted.
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Hearsay is basically ANYTHING that is said outside of the Courtroom by ANYBODY.  It also includes writings, documents and many other things.

Most commonly hearsay occurs during witness testimony. Mom is testifying about how scared Beverly was when dad left her with the new and strange babysitter. However, mom did not see nor meet the babysitter. She didn’t even know she existed. Mom was trying to say that Beverly said the babysitter said “….”

Attorney: OBJECTION, HEARSAY.

Judge: SUSTAINED. DON”T TELL ME WHAT THE CHILD SAID OR WHAT THE BABYSITTER SAID.

The babysitter has to come testify or mom has to describe Beverly after dad’s weekend.

Mom:  She came home distressed and sullen. Her eyes were red, as if she’d been crying.

Beverly told her what happened, so she called dad. Now mom can say what dad said because he and she are the parties to the case, an exception to the hearsay rule.

Your attorney should practice your testimony and how to deal with hearsay.  You may always describe what you personally observed, what you did and what you said, and this is the way to possibly get around hearsay and/or having other witnesses involved testify.

Matthew Thompson is a family law attorney and encourages you to practice your testimony and telling your story without saying what somebody told you.

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General Legal, humor, Opinion

Just Checking…

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Marshall Ramsey sums up Mississippi’s current politico-religiosity in one frame.

Child Custody, Divorce, General Legal, Modifications, Visitation

Changing Custody vs. Visitation

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Modification is the process that is used to change a Court Order.  I previously discussed how NOT to modify your papers here.

Here are the basics for the right way to modify the Court Order.  Child Custody, Visitation and Child Support are always modifiable. However, each has a separate standard.  Each require that you prove something different.

I.  Child Custody is the most difficult to modify. The non-custodial parent, must demonstrate 1) a material change in circumstances,  2) adverse to the child, 3) in the home of the custodial parent.  In English, dad has to show that there has been a big change, harmful to the child and it was mom’s fault.  It does not matter how much better dad is doing.  It does not matter that he has a new job, making good money, and has remarried Mary Poppins.  The Standard concerns what is going on in mom’s house.

A material change could be bad grades, serious behavior problems, serious problems with mom or serious problem with mom’s new beau. Now, once you show the bad change, harmful to the child, and it’s mom’s fault, dad wins, right? No. That provides the Court the authority to go back through the Albright factors for the Court to determine which parent is in the best interest of the child.

II.   Visitation has a lower standard to modify.  In order to modify visitation all one needs to do is demonstrate that the current schedule is not working.  This can be shown by showing that a party moved over several hours away making every other weekend unworkable or by showing that due to the child’s schedule, or a parent’s work schedule the visitation plan is not working.  This one is easier to pursue, but the outcome is not always predictable, so have a plan for what schedule will work if you are seeking to change it because of distance or a work schedule issue.

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Matthew Thompson is a Mississippi Child Custody Attorney and reminds you to follow your papers.

Follow the blog: BowTieLawyer Visit the website: Thompson Law Firm You may also contact Matthew with your family law case, question or concern at (601) 850-8000 or Matthew@bowtielawyer.ms