Category Archives: Opinion

Mississippi! Spread the Word

I love my home state. I love Mississippi.

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As a state, we have had some negative press of late. Our flag is behind the times and not representative of over half of our population (I’m including all races in this calculation, btw).  We are considered one of the least educated, poorest and most corrupt states.  We are good at being bad and bad at being good in the categories that matter, it seems.

However, we are also one of the most generous state’s per capita. We have a history of phenomenal athletes, authors, artists and musicians. We have amazing chefs, foodies and cuisine. We have a lot to be proud of.  We also have the potential to be better.  We know our problems. We know they cannot be solved overnight, but we also know there is a solution.

Time, hard work, commitment to change, to educate, to build infrastructure and to drive forward exists in the generations that are and will be the leaders of Mississippi.

Mississippi,

Here’s a pat on the back. You do somethings really well!

Also, to anyone not in Mississippi, as Public Service Announcement; Mississippi has electricity, running water, indoor plumbing, books, shoes and air conditioning and we have had these luxuries/necessities of life for decades!

Matthew Thompson is a Family law attorney in Mississippi and is proud #Hail from the Hospitality State. 

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Mississippi Bar Convention; Lawyers, Judges & Court Personnel, Oh My

The Mississippi Bar Convention is the annual meeting  of the  State Bar (of which all practicing lawyers in Mississippi are members) and an opportunity for Lawyers to earn Continuing Legal Education hours.

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Great Presentation by Randy Kessler of Atlanta to the MS Bar Family Law Section. You know him from Real Housewives of Atlanta and Nancy Grace! Great guy too!

The Bar’s mission is to protect the public by promoting competency, professionalism and ethics in the practice of law and the judicial system.  Membership in the Mississippi Bar is compulsory for all practicing lawyers in Mississippi.

The Bar Convention is a time where lawyers, judges and Court personnel meet, greet, learn and socialize in a relaxed atmosphere. The various practice areas have presentations, seminars and speakers to talk about the recent trends and hot issues.  The Bar and various Sections and Committees install their new officers, as the gable is passed.

Legal Pioneers, professionals and those with distinguished achievements are honored and recognized.

Cham Trotter receiving the Ole Miss Law Alumni of the Year at the Mississippi Bar Convention.

It’s fun for the family too!

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Matthew Thompson is proud to be a Family Law Attorney in Mississippi and a member of the Mississippi Bar.

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Take Care of What You Have!

What should be your life’s mission? This is often asked and has lead to much angst. But life’s real mission is to take care of what you have. 

  
So what does that mean? Take care of yourself; your body, mind and spirit. Take care of your family; your spouse, children and relatives. Take care of your property; your house, cars and stuff. Take care of your financial well being; your job, your assets and debts. 

A great example is when someone has a great house and doesn’t take care of it. This is most people’s single biggest asset, but when you ignore needed maintenance, delay routine upkeep and attempt to hide issues rather than have them repaired properly, you are ultimately only hurting yourself. Paying a little along the way prevents you from paying a lot later. 

Great advice for relationships too. Investing along the way. Taking your time, getting to know one another and doing routine maintenance will help avoid paying a lot later; like a visit to my office. 

Matthew Thompson is a Family Law Attorney in Mississippi and hopes you don’t have to call him, but if you do, please do. 

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Why Do YOU Want to Be a Judge? Kelly Williams Candidate for Madison County Justice Court Judge on Why She Should be YOUR Next Judge

Election season is in the air! But how do you know who to vote for? One way is to meet the candidate and then ask them why are they Running for Office.

Kelly for Judge

WHY I’M RUNNING…

As I continue down the campaign trail, one of the questions that I’m asked frequently is: “Why should I vote for you?” So I wanted to take a minute and tell everybody why I’m running for Madison County Justice Court Judge, District 3. There are actually a couple of reasons why I think I’m well-suited for the position. Like I said, some people already know and if you’ve already heard it, then please just bear with me.

The first reason is that I feel strongly that Justice Court Judges should be lawyers. While the law doesn’t require this, I think it is important that Justice Court Judges have a fundamental understanding of due process. This is certainly not to suggest that a law degree is needed to read a statute or law, but being a judge is much more than reading a statute. In addition to being a lawyer, I believe a Justice Court Judge-and all judges for that matter-have to have common sense. This is an absolute must in Justice Court in particular, because more people will find themselves in Justice Court than any other court in our Judicial system and many, if not most, will find themselves unrepresented. This is because of the relatively low civil jurisdiction, being that Justice Court handles civil matters not to exceed more than about $3500 and generally speaking deals with misdemeanors to include DUI 1st and 2nd, traffic citations and bond hearings.

For example, let’s say I’m sued for $3500 and I go to a lawyer to hire them to represent me. Well, in many cases, that lawyer is going to charge me more than $3500, so that’s a no brainer. I’m certainly not going to do that, so I’m likely going to go to court on my own without a lawyer. The Plaintiff will probably also not be represented, because in Justice Court to start your case you need only to initiate some paperwork, such as an affidavit, and the Clerks are good at guiding people through that process. This is rightly so since Justice Court is still the people’s court. So now we have two parties, neither of whom is represented by lawyers. If you throw a judge into that mix who is not a lawyer, then you have problems. On the other side of that coin, that need for knowledge and understanding of due process is matched by a need for common sense. There must be common sense application of the law. Without both of these, you end up with bad decisions that affect people’s lives.

The second reason is a little closer to home for me. As some of you know, my family has a long history of military support and service. My grandfather served in WWI and all three of my uncles served in WWII, one of whom was killed shortly before the war ended and remains buried in a memorial cemetery over seas. My father was Air Force and flew in Viet Nam and later served in the Air Guard. My husband served during the Gulf War and was stationed on the USS Abraham Lincoln and my mother, who is a nurse, retired from the Army National Guard as a full-bird Colonel. I will never be able to compare to that kind of service. Those in my family who’ve come before me contributed to our way of life in a way to which my contributions will not compare. My contributions to this community and country will, in large part, come in how I raise my children, my charitable contributions and how I use my education, experience and skill set. The last of these I believe make me the best-suited candidate for Madison County Justice Court Judge. Finally, I do have judicial experience. For the last five years I have presided over abuse and neglect adjudications and Delinquency proceedings.

If you’re still reading, I thank you for hanging in there. I know this is not the most interesting post, but if I’m asking for your vote, I think it’s important for you to know why I’m running.

I want to thank everyone for their support. I can’t express how much it means to me. We’re out of t-shirts, but ordering more and we’ve got more signs coming in today. Please let me know if you’d like either and visit www.kellywilliamsforjudge.com to get involved. Please get out and vote on August 4th and please consider voting for me. I need your vote!

*Thompson Law Firm, pllc, is a Host for the Kelly Williams for Madison County Justice Court Judge campaign.

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Best Advice for the Day; Don’t Smell Like an Ashtray

People who smoke. It is your right to do so. While it is getting more difficult to smoke in public,  more expensive and, I think the proof is conclusive, it is bad for you, it is still your right.

But,  one thing smokers overlook or become immune to is the aroma. Cigarette smoke stinks. I’ve heard it said that pipe smoke smells good. I get that, well, at least the argument. But, cigarette smoke stinks. It permeates your clothes, hair, fingers, breath, car, office, books, and home.  It’s difficult to de-smoke-ify something once it’s smokey.

So, if you are trying to make a good first impression, or are testifying in Court, or are trying to sell your house. Be mindful of how you smell. If it’s like an ashtray, you may not get the results you are looking for.

Matthew Thompson is a Family Law Attorney in Mississippi and is not a smoker. He did have a dog named Smokey once. He was a good dog.

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Know When to Walk Away

Kenny Rogers sang the tune,”You’ve got to know when to hold ’em,
Know when to fold ’em, Know when to walk away, And know when to run.”

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He was talking about Gambling, but it’s good advice for life in general and specifically for Family Law.

You would do well to know what are deal breakers in your relationship. Some issues can and should be dealt with, some issues (read arguments) aren’t worth having. Sometimes it’s best to “walk it off” and let cooler heads prevail and sometimes you just need to run. Run away. It’s too complicated, hard, and not good, ultimately for either party, or the kids, or the extended family.

Matthew Thompson is a Family Law Attorney in Mississippi and encourages you to be like Kenny Rogers. No, don’t sing country music and have “some work” done in your later years. But, know what’s worth fighting for and when to walk away…

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Charlie Sheen- Law, Love and Winning

After a week of Flag and Marriage controversy, how about a topic even more controversial? Charlie Sheen.

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There could be a law school class; Charlie Sheen and the Law.

Charlie on Restraining Orders:

Great. I was already planning on staying 100 parsecs away from her.” (A parsec is a unit of length equaling 3.26 light-years.)

Charlie on being “Bi-Polar:”

I’m bi-winning. I win here and I win there. Now what? If I’m bipolar, aren’t there moments where a guy like crashes in the corner like, ‘Oh my God, it’s all my mom’s fault!’ Shut up! Shut up! Stop! Move forward.

Charlie on suing CBS:

They’re trying to destroy my family, so I take great umbrage with that. And defeat is not an option. They picked a fight with a warlock.”

Charlie on why he is a “Winner:”

I’m sorry, man, but I’ve got magic. I’ve got poetry in my fingertips. Most of the time — and this includes naps — I’m an F-18, bro. And I will destroy you in the air. I will deploy my ordinance to the ground.

Charlie on Drugs:

I am on a drug. It’s called Charlie Sheen. It’s not available because if you try it once you will die. Your face will melt off and your children will weep over your exploded body. It’s too much.”

 

Quotes courtesy of Mr. Sheen and US Magazine.

Matthew Thompson is a Family Law Attorney in Mississippi and has not met Charlie Sheen.

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Flag vs. Reality( Tip-toeing into Politics)

The Mississippi Flag is in the news! Unfortunately, it is for all of the wrong reasons.

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Not the Mississippi Flag.

In 2001, there was a vote.  This vote was not “Do you Love the Current Flag above all Others?”  But instead it was do you Like “Flag A” better than “Flag B” ?  Flag A won, 64.39% to 35.61%.

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Flag B

A majority picked A, but was it decisive for all eternity? No. There was not a Flag C to choose from.  Flag B, and other options that didn’t make the cut, came about through committee. (Read more at the link).

Heritage or hate? Those arguments will not get you to a consensus. Think dollars and sense. Changing the flag will be a boon for the economy. For flag makers, sticker vendors, hat makers and those artisans that make those tiny spoons you see at the Flying J. A new flag can still have roots in heritage, NOT be associated with hate, AND be the will of the people!

Interestingly the tragedy out of South Carolina is the reason this is on the forefront today and it’s NOT even South Carolina’s State Flag.

I’ve seen the South Carolina State Flag on everything. Hats, shirts, koozies, stickers, key chains, bow ties. The list is endless. It is time for Mississippi to have a State Flag that the entire State can be proud of.

Our thoughts and prayers are with the victims and their families in South Carolina.

Matthew Thompson is a Family Law Attorney in Mississippi and supports changing the flag in Mississippi and vows to not wear a bow tie with the current state flag on it. 

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