“Indecent things with Animals…” Cochran vs. McDaniel, Round 13

You can witness, firsthand, political hay being made!

The Clarion Ledger has the video on its website of Cochran’s now infamous reference to animals.

The link above is the video of Senator Cochran’s speech at Forrest General hospital.  Senator Cochran’s campaign has new vigor and he is making the rounds, glad-handing the people and being folksy… campaigning, finally.

In an attempt to relate to residents of the Mississippi Pine Belt, Cochran recalled spending holidays in rural parts of the area visiting relatives, picking pecans and doing “all kinds of indecent things with animals.”  It got laughs and Cochran, himself, smiled as he tied his memories into why the locals should support him.

Now the McDaniel campaign is claiming this to be a Freudian slip; proof that the septuagenarian Senator is losing it or worse, some horrific admission to harming small woodland and/or farm creatures.

Watch for yourself and make your own conclusions.

Catch up on the Campaign; Picture-gate, Update, Open Letter.  For mesmerizing coverage for all things campaign related hop on over to Jackson Jambalaya.

Matthew Thompson is a Mississippi Family Law attorney and encourages you to stay tuned for the upcoming blog on animal indecency and grounds for divorce in Mississippi.  Interesting stuff…

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FINALLY…a Decent Campaign Video

“I’m Benny Hill and I approve this message!”

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Signs of an Unreasonable Client…

Does your lawyer avoid you like the plague, saying he’s  in “Court,” or she’s in depositions? Maybe they are, or maybe you are an unreasonable client!

Signs of an Unreasonable client:

  • You want it yesterday. (Most things are not emergencies and even the basics take time to get right.  Allow adequate time.)
  • You want it your way. (This is not Burger King.  Usually, doing it your way leads to the mess that you are now in.)
  • You do not heed advice.  (Similar to wanting it your way, you ignore instructions such as “DO NOT COMMUNICATE WITH HIM IN ANY MANNER WHATSOEVER!” and then you call, text, email and send smoke signals and a fight ensues.)
  • You blame the messenger.  (A lot of times attorneys have to deliver crummy news due to bad circumstances.  It’s is not because we want you to suffer, but it is because that is the way it is.)
  • You think everything is an EMERGENCY. (It’s not.)
  • You want something for nothing. (You may well get what you pay for.)
  • You paid last year and think they owe you.  (That was a year ago. See You want something for nothing.)
  • You call the office, leave a message, call the cell phone, leave a message, send 2 texts, send 1 email, and call the paralegal all within 3 minutes and it is NOT an emergency.  (This is wholly unnecessary.)

Matthew Thompson is a Mississippi Divorce attorney and knows a thing or two about unreasonable clients.  If you identify with 2 or more of the above you may well be an Unreasonable Client, see your lawyer at their next available appointment for treatment.

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Candidate Takes Advice..? Trust the Bow Tie

Last Sunday, June 8, 2014, the Clarion Ledger pointed out a change in Senator Cochran’s campaign strategy…

And after months of defending or dodging his record of bringing home the bacon from Washington, Cochran is now using it for his offense message: Look what I’ve done for your county, town, business, military base or school. Imagine life without me, or the federal spending that makes up more than 40 percent of state revenue

Sound familiar? A blog posting on the morning of Friday, June 6, in An Open Letter to the Senate Candidates, opined that Senator Cochran needed to change the tone of the race and proclaim that he has;

…brought more monies into Mississippi than Mississippi has paid into the system.  Be proud of it…You brought more jobs, more industry, more opportunity than otherwise would have been available to Mississippi…you went to bat for Mississippi and brought home the bacon!  Be proud of that.  You did not create the 17 trillion dollar national debt, you fighting for Mississippi is not saddling our children and grandchildren to indentured servitude.  Instead it gives Mississippians a fighting chance and needed resources and the people know this.  If you had not worked to help Mississippi it would have gone elsewhere.  No one can refute that with any semblance of credibility.

I’m Matthew Thompson and I approve this message. (No word from the McDaniel camp…)

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Why a Lawyer Does NOT Call You Back.

It’s just a “…quick question.  Just one question. Does the father of my baby have any rights and will I get in trouble if…”

We all get them. A voice-mail left in the inbox, an email or a comment/question on the website.  The problem is answering just one question could very well be considered rendering legal advice.  Upon that being done, a lawyer’s responsibility can grow exponentially. Huh?

You call and say;

“this is Miranda. I just want to know if Ricky can see my baby and if I’ll get in trouble if I don’t let him.  We went to court some years ago and the judge said he had to pay but that I had custody…”

There is no way to answer the above adequately without more information.

  • What did the Order state?
  • Who has legal custody?
  • Who has physical custody?
  • Does he have visitation?
  • Why are you refusing?
  • Is he dangerous?
  • What was he ordered to pay?
  • Is he in arrears?

Without more information any answer is dangerous and could very likely be wrong.  And once you’ve relied upon it and then sued over it you say, “Well, Lawyer so-and-so told me to do “x.”

That is why lawyers do not call you back when you are not a client. (When you are a client and don’t get a call back is another story entirely, and a blog for another day.)

Matthew Thompson is a family law attorney and sometimes cannot respond to the comments and questions left on this site because of lack of information.  Additionally, if you do not include a means to contact you directly the only way to respond is through a public posting which would require disclosing your information which is generally not appropriate.

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Pet Peeve of the Day: Text Message Novels

We’ve all received them, ridiculously long texts messages…

Uhg!

Texting is meant to be convenient or perhaps a stealthy means of communication.  Long messages are neither convenient or stealthy.  Additionally, they are impossible to respond to in a satisfying fashion.  If it takes more than one text box; call, write an email or send a letter.

Matthew Thompson is a family law attorney that is not afraid for his clients to have his cell phone number, it’s even on his business cards, but you will not get an adequate response to a “text message novel.”  

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An Open Letter to the Senate Candidates:

Dear Candidates:

Stop the insanity.  YOU have both been a part of what has been described as the dirtiest Senatorial campaign in Mississippi History! (And, that is not up for debate).

To U.S. Senator Cochran:  It is time for you to make multiple public appearances, to change the “tone and tenor” of the campaign and see and be seen.  You have been a steady rock for Mississippi for 35+ years!  You have brought more monies into Mississippi than Mississippi has paid into the system.  Be proud of it.  You were doing your job.  Your job was to represent Mississippian’s in their own best interests.  You brought more jobs, more industry, more opportunity than otherwise would have been available to Mississippi. During Mississippi’s darkest hours, Katrina and other disasters, you went to bat for Mississippi and brought home the bacon!  Be proud of that.  You did not create the 17 trillion dollar national debt, you fighting for Mississippi is not saddling our children and grandchildren to indentured servitude.  Instead it gives Mississippians a fighting chance and needed resources and the people know this.  If you had not worked to help Mississippi it would have gone elsewhere.  No one can refute that with any semblance of credibility.

Also, changing the “tone and tenor” means stop labeling everything someone from the other campaign does as a felony. Maybe it is, and those persons behind Picture-gate need to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law, but be careful on how it is “used” by your people, or rather, the spin that it is being “used” at all.

Connect, be folksy, talk to the people.  Be out there.  Be proud.  Admit that you are not a social media aficionado. Neither are my parents and I’d vote for them.  Ask that WE rehire you for the job you signed up for, that you want it, and that you intend to serve the people of Mississippi. Say it again and again.

Senator Cochran’s website.

Senator Cochran’s Campaign site.

To State Senator McDaniel: Get control of “your” people.  Even if they are not “your” people.  Statements should be anticipated and prepared in advance, then used at the appropriate time, no ad-libbing either.  They should toe the party line and they should be where they are supposed to be when they are supposed to be there, or put more bluntly, they should not be where they are not supposed to be when they are not supposed to be there. Two instances of persons connected to you have created more fodder than there ever should have been.  It is clear that with regard to the Picture-gate fiasco that those were rouge operatives.  However, election night shenanigans are ridiculous.  You were previously on notice.  Sure, this is likely much ado about nothing, but it’s the much ado part that’s causing problems. Instead of press release after press release citing local officials that cleared “your” people before they were uncleared, wait (see “used at appropriate time” hereinabove).  Get the facts.  Twice you’ve claimed all clear only later to be refuted by local officials citing “ongoing investigations.”  It makes it look worse.

Get control and be in control of your campaign.  Also, you have the Tea Party votes locked-up, spend some time with the other Mississippi voters.

State Senator McDaniel’s campaign site.

Also, to both Candidates be more specific.  

  • How will you repeal ObamaCare? It’s been tried and failed – the repealing.  The consensus is, whether ObamaCare is good or bad, it’s here to stay.  
  • Are you really saying that you would amend ObamaCare?  If so, say so and say how.
  • How will you reduce the deficit? Cutting the pork means less money for Mississippi. WE believe it will just go elsewhere, perhaps in a different form.
  • Why is Mississippi getting less a good thing? Where is the difference made up? How does Mississippi benefit from your service?
  • How will you END Common Core? How will you improve education?
  • Are you just pandering to your voters?

Answer these questions, among others, and be direct and as simple as possible.

Matthew Thompson is a Family Law Attorney in Mississippi (formerly the Hospitality State), aced Legislation in Law School, and has not contributed to either campaign and does not believe either candidate is the devil incarnate and WILL be voting in the run-off election June 24.

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How to Diffuse an Atomic Neighbor.

Citizens Arrest! Citizens Arrest!

The other day I was pulled over in my neighborhood.  Not by the police, but by a “concerned septuagenarian.”  In my neighborhood there is a round-about.  The car attempting to enter should yield to those in the round-about.  However, this particular car treated the round-about more akin to a 4-way stop, or at least a 4-way yield.  I had just voted, was in a hurry and could not be late for my 6-year old’s swimming lessons. Serious stuff.

I eased through the round-about and continued on my merry way.  As I approached my destination there was construction traffic. I decided to avoid said traffic and in doing so was “caught.”  The concerned citizen stopped behind me and I graciously waved her around.  She did not budge. I waved again and mouthed “You may go around” and smiled.  She stopped next to my passenger window.  She had on dark, huge sunglasses. Bumblebee Glasses as it were.  She had a long, skinny cigarette protruding from her mouth.  Her car make? Buick. Her mood? Foul.

She stated that she had the right-of-way and that I should have yielded and that the speed limit was 25 and that I was most assuredly going faster than that.  I was a little surprised by her comments.  It took a second for me to process what she was saying.  It was not a close call at the round-about.  I did not cut her off, in fact I didn’t impede her forward progress in any fashion whatsoever.  It was not  obvious driver error, at least to me.

I thought of all the responses I could have made.  I thought about being defensive or dismissive or worse. I wondered how she even saw me while she was wearing those huge, elliptical goggles she had for sunglasses. I thought of how bad smoking is, that it causes cancer and that one can also be cited for driving too slow and impeding the flow of traffic. Instead…

I said,”You are right. I am sorry.  Thank you for calling me on it and it will not happen again.”

She was taken aback.  She was geared up for a fight.  She then asked me if I was lost.  I said “No ma’am, have a nice day.”  Fortunately, there was no arrest nor incident report.  She went her way and I went mine.  Sometimes, “You are right and I am sorry” is the best response.

Matthew Thompson is a Divorce Attorney in Mississippi cautions all drivers to drive defensively.

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