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She’s Your Ex, not mine.

“The poison ivy of people are ex spouses.” -Matthew Thompson

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Exes can irritate, inflame, and annoy regardless of the season. Exes can make life difficult and uncomfortable. Exes can also cause a reaction that is not good.

I was meeting with a divorcee and their new spouse. We were discussing some issues about the ex and the best way to address it.  The new spouse made the comment “She’s your ex, not mine.”  This was a profound comment. It was not shirking responsibility or even placing blame. It was a statement that you, as the former spouse, need to address issues head-on and in an adult like manner.

Novel thought. Act like an adult. All too often, I see ex spouses acting like everything but adults. Petty arguments, meaningless games of one-upping the other and a general lack of care for the ex spouse can serve to harm the child. These are bad. Don’t do these things.

Act like an adult.

Matthew Thompson is a Child Custody attorney and encourages ex spouses to act like adults.

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Cockroaches, Your Ex & What they Deserve.

What do you get for your Ex that has everything?

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What they deserve.

The Bronx Zoo has a special offer for you. For just $10.00 you can name a roach after your Ex and receive a Certificate to prove it. For the low, low cost of $25.00 it includes an edible, delectable, chocolate treat!

Offer ends soon.

Matthew Thompson is a Family Law Attorney in Mississippi and encourages you to support your local Zoo. TLF did by adopting a Madgascar Hissing Cockroach in honor of all of your Exes!

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How Cold is Your Ex’s “Cold, Dark Soul?”

On the drive in to the office this morning I heard our local Meteorologist, Brad Maushart, say…

“It is colder than your Ex’s cold, dark soul…”

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The official low was 13 degrees!

So, How Cold is Your Ex’s “Cold, Dark Soul?”

Approximately 14-15 degrees!

Matthew Thompson is a Divorce Lawyer in Jackson, Mississippi and can help bring the heat if your relationship is too cold to survive.

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How to Know if Your (Ex) In-Laws HATE You.

Divorces don’t only end a marriage. A lot of times they end friendships and extended family connections.

Once that divorce is final sometimes a clean break is best.  Sometimes a clean break is not possible…So, how do you know if your former in-laws hate, hate, hate you?

They sue you!

In one case, shortly after an acrimonious divorce was final, the ex-husband received a notice from the bank that his account was being garnished. The call came quickly.

Q: “What is this? How can I be Garnished?”

A:Someone has a Judgment against you…”

Legal research revealed a law suit in Justice Court. A Default Judgment was entered, which included a money judgment. A Writ of Garnishment was also filed.  All of this done, by the way, with NO notice or service on the Defendant.

Who was the intrepid filer, you ask? The now ex father-in-law.  He was mad, to say the least.

As justice requires, these actions were set aside.  A Motion to Set Aside and Stay of Garnishment were filed.  Notice and actual process was served on the opposing party, the proper way. It was proven that the ex father-in-law provided an address he knew to be incorrect for the now ex son-in-law resulting in no notice or process.  As there was no Process – meaning actual notice or service, the judgment was void and set aside for a do-over.

What was the issue?  A missed vacation and a non-refunded deposit. Yes. The ex father-in-law sued for the return of a vacation deposit that he planned, he paid, that he owed, that he decided not to take because the “family blew up.”

So, can you sue your ex in-law for a missed vacation? Yes.  Will you win? No.  Should you? No.  Does that make you a terrible person? Could be…

Matthew Thompson is a Divorce Attorney in Mississippi and suggests you not sue your family members, if you can help it.

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Don’t Trash Your Ex Publicly.

Sure they probably deserve it, but what is the old saying?

Never wrestle with a pig because YOU get dirty and the pig likes it. –

George Bernard Shaw

It is hard, sometimes seemingly impossible to pass up a good opportunity to besmirch the ex, however telling the Homeroom teacher you are unsure about how you are going to pay for Jr.’s field trip because his dad is a deadbeat isn’t right, especially when it’s not true.  The problem is, even when it is true, it is still NOT right.

Saying negative and hurtful things about the other parent always backfires.  In the day and age of twitter, FaceBook, texting and digital recorders- assume all conversations are heard, overheard, recorded and shared.  This means it gets back to the other parent, back to the kids and is as bad as the tattled-upon conduct.

Also, don’t assume your anonymous blog posting is really anonymous.  You have a unique ISP#, your online activity, site visits, time of the visit and duration of the visit are retrievable information.

Matthew Thompson is a Family Law Attorney in Mississippi and cautions you that if you would not say it your Mom, then you should not be saying it to someone else about your Ex.

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The Middle Finger Next Door. (Shooting the Bird, The Bird is the Word)

In what seems to be one of the wildest “family law” stories this year, a Michigan man purchased the home next door to his ex-wife, but that is not all…

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He erected a giant “middle finger” statue.  It’s lighted too.  According to the disgruntled divorcee, his ex is living with her boyfriend in the home. The same boyfriend who he accused her of having an affair with during the marriage.  He reports the statue is for him, not the ex.  The ex-husband was quoted as saying that he is “so over her.” Obviously. The bird is the word.

Matthew Thompson is Family Law Attorney in Mississippi, “The Hospitality State.,” and reminds you that “shooting the bird” is not hospitable!

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