One way to ensure that a video of you does NOT go viral is to NOT do things that are being recorded on video.
Whether you’re dealing with a Family Law matter or just hanging out with your friends, don’t do things that you do not want to see again.
A recent video has gone viral of a UM college student being disgusting at Spring Break. It hearkens back to an Ozzie Osbourne stunt except this time it involved a hamster.
Sometimes we get caught up in the excitement of a new relationship or being around friends and do things we regret. Sometimes mind-altering substances loosen inhibitions. With a video camera being on nearly every cell phone, these days you cannot afford to lose your inhibitions and act foolish.
Matthew Thompson is a Family Law Attorney and advises potential clients that if your Mother or a Judge would be ashamed of what you are doing, do something else, and for the love of Pete don’t video it!
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You would have had to have been under a rock, or just busy trying to work and make a living to have missed the news that has sent tremors through Oxford and the School up North.
The Mississippi college board, known as the Mississippi Institutions for Higher Learning (IHL) has erupted in psuedo-scandal when the decision was made to not renew Dan Jones’ contract to be the continuing Chancellor of Ole Miss, and thereby overseer of the Medical School.
The brouhaha centers around his management of contracts that relate to UMMC and his lack of getting IHL approval of certain contracts. It seems that personality conflicts have as much to do with the issues as it relates to “sloppy” contract oversight.
What seems undisputed is that no tax payer dollars were misappropriated and there was no self or backdoor dealings .
Conspiracy theories abound as to “Why?” Do Hank Bounds and Dan Jones hate each other? Did Governor Phil Bryant want him out? Is Haley Barbour behind the scenes pulling strings? The so-far-unanswered question is what is the real story. Contract issues? Political favors? Or, is it the Gamma Knife?
The Gamma Knife is a $5 Million Dollar, stereotactic radiosurgical instrument that shoots 192 beams of cobalt-60 radiation, with pinpoint precision at brain tumors. The med school bought one a few years back. It turns out the space allotted for the Gamma Knife is not appropriate. Essentially it will not fit through the door and the floor is not strong enough to support its weight. So the Gamma Knife has been in the broom closet for 2 years. But, that’s not the whole story. The Gamma Knife has also been the subject of litigation. Another competitor with a Gamma Knife said that UMMC needed a Certificate of Need to get one and so they should be prohibited from using it. This resulted in litigation which led to the Gamma Knife being sheathed, pending the litigation. Ultimately, UMMC prevailed.
So what is the solution? Regardless of the motives, the IHL’s own admission is that Dan Jones did not misappropriate any monies. The mistakes were due to the mountains of contracts and the inefficiency of the school’s systems and procedures to manage those contracts at the time. All of which are fixed. The Solution is for the IHL board to say it acted in haste, acting upon the best information available at the time and that upon further investigation that Mississippi is best served by Dan Jones carrying on. Dan Jones needs to take some heat for past inefficient handling of contracts and a promise to do right in the future.
Can this be done? Who knows? Are politics at play or is this really about contracts and following the rules? Why do you care? We care because “Did MS oust a good leader over politics?” Or is the IHL being the “watchdog” they portend to be?
Matthew Thompson is a Divorce Attorney and usually sticks to article about Family Law, but when given the opportunity to write about Gamma Knives, always takes a cut at it. Watch Out! Or, Dan Jones might cut you with his Gamma Knife.
Used car salesmen, stock brokers and door-to-door salespersons have tough reputations, at least the internet says so.
Well, what about attorneys? Lawyers represent the 4th highest rank of depression for any given career. Attorneys are like used cars. Some are shiny and look great on the outside, but are held together with JB Weld and duct tape on the inside. Some look rough and haggard, but can get the job done in an economical fashion. Some are much more expensive than necessary, but it’s your choice. Some are just not equipped to get the job done. Given this, how do you know what you are getting?
Ask. Ask your friends, family and neighbors who they used? How was their experience?
Inspect. You interview the lawyer as much as they interview you. Can they explain the law in terms you understand?
Listen. Are they telling you just what you want to hear?
As Forrest Gump said, “You never know what you are going to get.” But, with a little homework and due diligence you can avoid getting a lemon.
Matthew Thompson is a Divorce Litigation Attorney in Mississippi and warns you to avoid the Lemon Lawyer.
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Too often lawyers and litigants do things just to be doing something. I like having a plan and carrying out that plan. I discuss options, steps and expenses for each option and what I recommend and why.
While this approach takes more effort and time on the front end it can lead to amazing results of achieving seemingly very difficult goals very quickly or without causing a huge scene.
Matthew Thompson is a Divorce Attorney and loves it when a plan comes together!
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No, I am not in the NSA, but I have less issues keeping secrets than they do and the CIA.
Keeping secrets is not hard, but it’s very easy to slip up. Here are sure-fire ways to ensure that your secret gets out.
5 Ways to Spill the Beans:
5. Tell someone else. It’s no longer a secret when more than one person knows about it. There are only a few circumstances when privilege applies to disclosed secrets.
4. Write it down. Keeping a Journal may be good for your mental health, but it also creates a record of your activity.
3. Take a Picture.Cameras on cellphones have lead to more evidence than just about any other device.
2. Get Drunk.It’s been said that “a drunk man says what a sober man thinks.”
1. Text It. Similar to #3. Text messages have done in many a secret. Not only are they very easy to send. They are easy to send to the wrong person, and come with a time and date stamp!
Matthew Thompson is a Divorce Attorney and knows how to keep a secret.
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3. Fake a pregnancy to induce you into marriage or remain in one.
2. Isolate you from all other persons/friends/family.
1. Encourage you to establish a shell LLC so that you may then purchase their dream home at your expense, placing ownership interests into their sole name and doing all of this in a fashion as to hide it from all others. All the while, said Soulmate pays no heed as to your current financial condition and whether it is what is best for you.
*Science has yet to conclusively prove that Soulmates exist.
Matthew Thompson is a Family Law Attorney and can help you part ways when you realize your Soulmate is NOT your Soulmate.
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Emotional abuse, verbal abuse, multiple affairs are all grounds for divorce in Mississippi.
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But, what if your spouse was really bad? What if they said, as my grandmother-in-law used to say, “both words?” IE: “I was so mad that I said ‘both words!'” What if you had really, really bad grounds and lots of it?
That gets you a divorce.
One affair or 1,000= a divorce. Being incarcerated for 1 year or for life = a divorce. Abandonment and the other grounds, if proven, gain you a divorce.
A mother having an affair does not lose custody because of that fact alone. A father who cheats does not have to pay the wife due to that fact alone. The Court, instead, looks at the totality of the circumstances. If you are a good parent despite your fault you will still get to see your child. If it was a short marriage or your spouse makes more than you, you will not have to pay a boat load just because you messed up. Courts do not “punish” you financially for affairs, usually.
Just because you messed up does not mean you have to continue messing up. Just because you messed up does not mean you will pay for it the rest of your days. But, if you are messing up Stop now and call an attorney.
Matthew Thompson is an Attorney practicing Divorce Law in Mississippi and may can help you even if you really, really messed up.
You may also contact Matthew with your family law case, question or more information on Child Custody and Divorce. (601) 850-8000 or Matthew@bowtielawyer.ms.
Most commonly it means having the fault ground of Adultery as the basis for the divorce. It is widely held that this is the only “Biblical Ground” for divorce and absent Adultery you cannot or should not get a divorce.
“Biblical grounds” can also include abuse and abandonment, depending upon your denomination. These, adding to the list the reasons that a divorce may be allowed.
Interestingly, the Bible also states “I say to you that everyone who looks at a another with lust has already committed adultery in his heart.” Mt. 5:28 This expresses the idea that lust for another, not your spouse, is “Biblical Grounds” for divorce.
Divorce is something no one really plans for (prenups notwithstanding). It is something that is routinely despised yet, it is also sometimes very necessary.
If you are struggling with issues of Divorce contact your clergy, counselor, or even an experienced family law attorney. They may well help you with your struggles.
Matthew Thompson is an Attorney practicing Family Law in Mississippi and may can help you.
You may also contact Matthew with your family law case, question or more information on Child Custody and Divorce. (601) 850-8000 or Matthew@bowtielawyer.ms.
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