Recently I “met” a man who I have previously met 4 times.
The first time was at a (1) community lunch that we both attended. We sat beside each other talked about our professions and several things we had in common. It was nice. The second time was (2) two weeks later at a similar event, again sitting at the same table for lunch. There was a vague memory of the first lunch. The third time was (3) again at lunch, but this time by happenstance. It was as if we had never met. The fourth time was at (4) a Wednesday night dinner at church. We sat immediately next to each other and I intentionally had a “memorable” conversation about Jack Black singing gospel songs. Who could forget that?
The fifth time (5) was just the other day…
I’m not sure what this means. I’m not sure if I should be offended, or not care, or treat it as proof that “you never get a second chance to make a first impression” is just not true. In any event, I recommend that you try to remember people and remember meeting them.
The one final take away is that on all of these occasions I was NOT wearing a bow tie. Perhaps I am not myself sans bow tie.
Matthew Thompson is a Divorce Litigation Lawyer in Mississippi, the Hospitality State and is recommitting to the bow tie.
Yes, if you are 18 or older for a long gun (ie: shotgun, rifle, muzzle loader)
or
Yes, if you are 21 or older for a hand gun (ie: pistol, revolver)
and
have not been convicted of domestic violence, a felony and have not been committed for alcohol or drugs, and are not under the influence at the time of purchase.
What about Possessing a Firearm?
Possession as opposed to purchasing has lesser restrictions. There is not minimum age for possession of a long gun. It’s not uncommon for 9-year-olds and up to have a shotgun for dove or duck hunting. It’s legal, and assuming proper supervision, safe. The law is a little more restrictive on a youngster possessing a handgun, but you can possess one if you are 18 or older, and if younger than 18 you may possess one for hunting purposes, at a shooting range or on private property with permission of the landowner.
Do I need a Permit or License?
No.
Do I have to Register my Firearm?
No.
What about Concealed Carry?
MS has recently adopted new laws concerning concealed carry vs. open carry and a license is required for Concealed Carry.
Where can I have this gun?
Your home, your business and your car and a lot of other places too, unless there is a Federal restriction against it, or if your local entity has the proper signage, unless of course you have the instructor certified endorsement (though the endorsement does not override Federal restrictions). Confused yet?
I would suggest you consult with your local law enforcement office if you have specific questions, though reading the law for yourself may prove more beneficial. Also, the laws are ever-changing. Confer with an attorney if you have any questions concerning the use, purchase or possession of a firearm in Mississippi before you have an issue.
Doing what I do I get asked a lot of questions. Family Law leads to a lot of weird situations, but one question that I get more than you’d think is
“Should I get a gun?”
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Should I Get a Gun has a lot of moving parts as far as a question goes…
Do you fear for your physical safety?
Is that reasonable under the circumstances?
Fearing for physical safety requires more than the purchasing of a firearm. Upon a good faith belief of bodily harm you should be considering getting to a safe place, a Restraining Order, Law Enforcement Involvement and further Court action, in addition to a firearm.
Do you know how to use a gun?
Are you willing to educate yourself?
Training course are offered all the time now. Handgun, shotgun, self-defense, and home defense courses are all the rage. Take one or two or all of them. Even experienced gun users would benefit. Proper training, muscle memory, repetitive exercises will all aid in your confidence as well handling of a serious situation.
Will you practice?
You have to practice!
Practice, practice, practice. There are several ranges throughout the state. You have to shoot and need to shoot to be comfortable with your firearm.
Safety. Safety. Safety.
Safety is the most critical aspect of owning and handling a firearm. Treating them all as loaded. Only aiming at intended targets. Keeping them safely and securely locked away from children and those that should not have access to a firearm is critical.
So, Should you get a Gun? Yes, if you are willing to educate, train, be safe and use it responsibly.
Matthew Thompson is a Mississippi Family Law attorney and encourages safe and responsible gun ownership.
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Listen to your Attorney. You hired them, now listen.
Ask if you Don’t Understand. We can sometimes fall into the trap of speaking in legalese and assume you get it you aren’t indicating otherwise.
Pay Your Bill. That is how attorneys make money and all attorneys are not as rich as they want you to think.
If you Have an Issue with us, Let us Know. Don’t tell someone else about your concerns and not allow the attorney a chance to address it.
Don’t Ignore your Attorney. One of the worst things you can do is go off the grid and not communicate.
Don’t Text Incessantly. It’s great for “running 10 minutes late” or “the date is Aug. 4,” otherwise call or email.
Don’t Email when a Call is Better. Somethings you just have to talk about.
Don’t Abuse the Cell Phone. Do NOT abuse the cell phone.
Matthew Thompson is a Divorce Lawyer in Mississippi and encourages all clients to be reasonable.
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In family law it is often desired by a party to do something to get back at the other spouse. The awful soon-to-be-ex did something first that was mean, so they want retribution and to do something meaner. Usually this is a very bad idea. Two wrongs don’t make a right and it may well get you into trouble.
John and Jenifer were married. John had an affair with Jane. Jane was married to Jim. So, guess what Jenifer did? She had an affair with Jim! It did not make things better…
There’s a reported case where the soon-to-be-ex-husband threw all of the wife’s clothes in the driveway, squirted them with lighter fluid and lit them afire. This conduct did not make things better.
Unless you want to end up in the War of Roses, stop doing things to make things worse.
Matthew Thompson is a Divorce Attorney in Mississippi and advises all of his clients to abstain from doing things to make things worse.
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If you’ve ever been involved in a family law case then you’ve dealt with someone lying.
Clients, witnesses and even lawyers sometimes lie. It could be a little white lie or a huge whopper. A former CIA officer said to watch out for these cues that you might be being lied to;
The Eyes Tell the Tale. When asked a question the witness looks up, closes their eyes or looks down, especially on a question they should know.
Shielding the Face. When speaking the person have their hand in front of their eyes or mouth.
Verbal Answer/Body Language Disagree. The best example of this was when the deponent was asked if she was having an affair. She said, “No,” but shook her head Yes. When confronted with this she spilled the beans.
The Delayed Response. Some things you should not have to think about.
Fidgeting. Messing with your hair, your cup, or your pen when answering.
Nose Grows. Think Pinocchio. Very rare*
Want to know more about lies and the people that tell them? Try these;
These are the basics that any family law practitioner is going to need to do a conflicts check and to do a proper evaluation of your case.
Matthew Thompson is a Divorce Attorney in Mississippi and encourages potential clients to educate themselves and know their stuff!
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